Learning to love..love is give

Learning to love is not easy.Just learn how to buy gift,and we need to know knowledge and needs about this person.Thank god there is a chance to know sonething more today.Love is give and not take.It required to sacrifice your time,money and creativity.Hope that the person like it..

The four candles

The Four Candles burned slowly.
Their ambiance was so soft you could hear them speak...

The first candle said, "I Am Peace, but these days, nobody wants to keep me lit."
Then Peace's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.

The second candle said, "I Am Faith, but these days, I am no longer indispensable."
Then Faith's flame slowly diminished and went out completely.

Sadly the third candle spoke, "I Am Love and I haven't the strength to stay lit any longer."
"People put me aside and don't understand my importance.

They even forget to love those who are nearest to them."
And waiting no longer, Love went out completely.

Suddenly...

A child entered the room and saw the three candles no longer burning.

The child began to cry,

"Why are you not burning?  You are supposed to stay lit until the end."

Then the Fourth Candle spoke gently to the little boy,

"Don't be afraid, for I Am Hope, and while I still burn,

we can re-light the other candles."

With shining eyes, the child took the Candle of Hope

and lit the other three candles.

Never let the Flame of Hope go out.

With Hope in your life, no matter how bad things may be,

Peace, Faith and Love may shine brightly once again.

When God Break Your Hearts....Hand over the pieces to him...

When God breaks your heart it’s not because of something you did wrong,
it’s because in the process of healing you,
he found some cracks from the world that could not be repaired,
unless he broke you down and started all over again.

When God breaks your heart it’s not because he wants to see you hurt,
it’s because he sees the chips and the scratches that are hurting you,
and he was tired of seeing you hurt like this,
so he decided to break you down and start all over again.

When you accidently hurt your best friend by saying the wrong thing,
you know God has forgiven you but you still can’t seem to forgive yourself,
and you know you don’t deserve forgiveness from the one you hurt,
God will break you down and start all over again.

God loves you so much he will break you just to heal you,
he will take you to rock bottom to restore you again,
he will show you the kindess you’ve never known before,
he will break your heart to show you the love you’ve always longed for.

You won’t understand his ways,
You won’t understand how breaking down means being restored again,
You won’t understand why you have the family you have,
all you know is there is a God and you’re supposed to trust him.

You won’t understand how he will use the pain in relationships,
to make them stronger than they were before,
You won’t understand why he seperates the closest of friends,
just to show you how much you truly love them.

You won’t understand how surrender means freedom,
You won’t understand how you can be broken,
yet experience joy and peace you just can’t explain,
you won’t understand why God will send you through certain trials.

For my thoughts are not your thoughts, and my ways are not your ways declares the Lord.

Just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways, and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.

He is the Lord almighty, we won’t understand his ways but we are to trust him,
he may break us down but that doesn’t mean his love has ended,
that doesn’t mean he has abandoned us,
it doesn’t mean he has forgotten us.

When God breaks you down it’s just to heal you,
and so he can hold you close in his arms and whisper,
‘I love you my child, please don’t run away again i missed you far too much’
‘You are my precious jewel I never wanted to hurt you but I did so you could understand…’

When God breaks your heart it’s not because of something you did wrong,
it’s because in the process of healing you,
he found some cracks from the world that could not be repaired,
unless he broke you down and started all over again.

When God breaks your heart,hand over every single piece to him...